I don’t think the link you inserted was the one you had intended. If you want to run a form in draft mode, make sure to click the radio button next to “Draft” before you click new instance. Then you will be asked if you want to send the notifications normally or all to yourself.
I suspect that you are not in draft mode. Either you have not saved the form since the last time it was published in which case there would be no draft presented, or you simply did not click the draft radio button. If neither of the above is true then please submit a support inquiry and we will schedule a GoToMeeting to review the issue.